Confess Your Thoughts

Anonymous asked: Okay so I was talking to this guy and everything was good but now hes completely shady. This seriously happens to me all the time and it makes my self-asteem go straight down because I have no idea what I did wrong. It's not like I'm clingy or anything, and he said he liked me and stuff. So what could be so wrong with me? Because its not the first time, and I just feel like I'm never gonna find someone that cares about me.He was a great guy but I don't want to hold on to him if he doesn't wantme

this has happened to me plenty of times. It’s definitely nothing wrong with you. You have to let him miss you by letting go of him for now. This happens with alot of teenage boys. They change their minds so frequently and it makes girls feel like they just forgot about them. Ask him how he really feels about you, and after that, just let go.

Anonymous asked: I think i might be in love with my bestfriend. He told me he likes me too. But we have dated before and it didn't work out. I'm not sure if it would work out this time. He promised it would unless something happens. But i'm still not sure. I just don't wanna get hurt again ... Or loose him again. Ya know?

I personally don’t believe you should right now. You need to give it time. When you date your best friend, you’re on a thin line. One bad moment could change everything. You should wait until both of you are 100% sure.

Anonymous asked: So, I have this friend of mine. Shes my best friend in the world, and I love her to death. But she is so self consious. She is beautiful, and one of the most amazing human beings I've met. But she always thinks that she is ugly. I've been trying for 3 years to change her thoughts, but I can't get to her. Also, she thinks no boys will ever like her. Any suggestions as to what to do/tell her? I've tried almost everything..

You can’t change someone’s perception of beauty. But you can make her realize that everyone has flaws, and make sure she doesn’t compare herself to other people. That’s one of the main reasons why many people believe they’re unattractive.

Anonymous asked: Theres this guy i really like but i don't know how to make him notice me or realise i like him. Help?

Things like this take time. Firstly, i’d say get to know him- how will he notice you if he doesn’t know you exist? Guys can be in their own world sometimes, so be bold and talk to the guy, he might actually find that very attractive.  Talk about common things like a class you have together or compliment his outfit, anything that fits in to where you are/how you know him and SMILE- the more friendly you are (without being too friendly and eager), the more he’ll remember you and want to see/talk to you again. The key is to talk to him often (he might even start the conversation after a while) and be interesting and fun to talk to. Be a little flirty every now and again by keeping eye contact, keeping the conversation fun and light, complimenting him and showing interest in the guys life by asking questions.